The common denominator with finishing a particular stage in our lives --- apart from being so excited about leaving that stage of our lives behind 😏 --- is thinking about what lies ahead. I remember feeling so excited about leaving secondary school 4 years ago, 4 years later I don't understand what was making me so excited then 😧. I almost feel silly for being so excited with myself. The next stage wasn't even a tad bit easier or better 😒. Irrespective of how disappointing the next step turns out to be, sometimes, finding the next step to take is a more disappointing process than actually taking the next step. In school, you know once you finish primary school, you move to secondary school, after that, you either look for a university that your grades can get you into, your parents or guardians can afford, or the one all your friends are going because making new friends is so much work 😅; after university, it becomes an extreme sport. T